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Unity in diversity is a
complex task, for it requires inter-dependency. And inter-dependency
cannot take place if I am unwilling to let go, if I cannot trust
another partner, if I refuse to be part of something greater
than myself.
That is our task. To generate
collective power by the force of inter-dependency, bringing
to the circle all of my skills, and celebrating the diversity
of my circle.
A few questions can guide
us into this journey.
The first one is:
"How will our partnership
look if we were at our best?"
Let us identify our optimal
condition.
Then, we can identify the
barriers that are keeping us from reaching our optimum performance.
The model that I recommend
is the one of Razalogia, a model developed by the Farmworkers
movement in California during the sixties, when the main task
was to unite people of diverse cultural and educational backgrounds.
This model consists of
using 4 indicators for assessing barriers and identifying resources
to overcome them. Here they are:
Knowledge
(Experience)
Trust Power
Experience, the common school
among us, is the element that can bring us all together.
What
is my experience of work? Are decisions taken based on experience?
Do we have the power to make the changes based on our best knowledge?
What are we doing to built knowledge, trust, and power for our
partnership?How is our growing experience being transformed
into a more effective program? How is the experience of our
clients being addressed by our partnership? What are we doing
to take care of each other?
The use of our experience to formulate
questions will lead us to identify barriers. We begin to trust
each other, to open up. Now, our challenge is how to break through
those barriers. If our participants are the ones to identify
barriers, our first step is to encourage them to come up with
solutions. Our "Experience" model, can serve as a starting point
for the formulation of solutions that contemplate how knowledge,
trust, and power are going to be improved by these actions.
The ancient Chinese model of Ying and
Yang provides us with healthy suggestions as to how to deal
with barriers. According to this model, each problem has within
itself the seed of its solution. Our task is to identify the
seed, and to nurture it, that is, to bring forth solutions in
the mists of problems. And by working with them, we also bring
forth our best self. The Chinese character for "Problem" also
means "opportunity." That is what a problem can be, if we choose
to approach it in such a way.
Each culture has developed its own resources
as to how problems need not to be the end of our enthusiasm
or hope. We find their resiliency in traditions, in stories
and sayings, in rituals and ceremonies, in words and images.
We are to bring them to work with us, for we are going to need
them.
A Russian story tells us that problems
are magic mirrors. They reveal who we are. This story tells
us about a young man who inherited a great kingdom. During his
whole life he never had to make an effort for anything. He also
never had to face the magic mirror, a problem that required
from him skill and effort. One day, the mirror appeared in the
form of a drought. The king saw his kingdom gradually reduced
to ruins, and all he did was to curse his fortune. Not far from
there, lived another man. This one had been haunted by the magic
mirror of problems numerous times. He had been born into the
most abject poverty, and ever since he was a little boy he had
to struggle to find a way to survive. He worked the land, met
the magic mirror a thousand times, and every time he had managed
to come up with a solution. This man grew up with only one certainly:
That he could face any adversity. As time went by, his capacity
as a problem solver grew, and his reputation spread through
out the kingdom. People from all walks in life will ask him
for his advise. When the drought came, the rest of the people
naturally gravitated towards him. He organized the people, prepared
them to go through this period, and taught them to rely on each
other. And they endured the drought. As the first drops of rain
fell from the sky, putting an end to the drought, the people
realized that now they were stronger than ever before. They
had discovered the strengths and skills of each other. They
were together. The people decided to celebrate, and asked the
young man to sit in a place of honor. The young man declined
stating that such an honorable place was reserved for a king.
But the king asked him to take such a place "we all have learned"
the king said, "that a problem-solver is the greatest resource
of our kingdom."
Problem-solving principles have worked
in the most oppressive circumstances, even in prisons and concentration
camps. The best example of this principle that comes to mind,
is the experience of Victor Frankl in a concentration camp during
World War II. Victor Frankl, a psychologist, was confronted
with the biggest challenge any psychologist can face. How to
keep hope alive in a hopeless situation. This is what Frankl
had to say to his comrades:
"Then I spoke of the
many opportunities of giving life a meaning. I told my comrades
(who lay motionless, although occasionally a sigh could be heard)
that human life, under any circumstances, never ceases to have
a meaning, and that this infinite meaning of life includes suffering
and dying, privation and death. I asked the poor creatures who
listened to me attentively in the darkness of the hut to face
up to the seriousness of our position. They must not lose hope
but should keep their courage in the certainty that the hopelessness
of our struggle did not detract from its dignity and its meaning.
I said that someone looks down on each of us in difficult hours
-a friend, a wife, somebody alive or death, or a God- and would
not expect us to disappoint him. He would hope to find us suffering
proudly -not miserably- knowing how to die.
And Finally I spoke
of our sacrifice, which had meaning in every case. It was in
the nature of this sacrifice that it should appear to be pointless
in the normal world, the world of material success. But in reality
our sacrifice did have meaning.
The purpose of my words
was to find a full meaning in our life, then and there, in that
hut and in that practically hopeless situation. I saw that my
efforts had been successful. When the electric bulb flared up
again, I saw the miserable figures of my friend limping toward
me to thank me with tears in their eyes. But I have to confess
here that only too rarely had I the inner strength to make contact
with my companions in suffering and that I must have missed
many opportunities for doing so."

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